Quote from the movie Social Network; joining Facebook isn't cool. You know what's cool? Quitting Facebook. This quote was acceptable and totally i'm agreed with it.
The article by Jenna Wortham was written to state and told us that using Facebook was giving a lot of harm rather than goodness. Her also said that 'One of Facebook's main selling points is that it builds closer ties among friends and colleagues. But it also have the opposite effect of making them feel more, not less, alienated.
From my reading and my view, yes Facebook give a lot of bad impact especially in relationship. It was not only relationship between couple, but also in friends, family and also co-worker. It site in the article that Facebook was not make a friends connected but more to alienated. In the article site that two close friends almost shut down their friendship because of Facebook. It happened because Ms. Elser have missed engagements and newborn babies. Her friends just update it in Facebook without told her straightly.
The other effect was it ruined the trust in institutions. It cause by the cheated from the irresponsible people to ruin the other people life. All the privacy pitfalls and publish it to the other people.
I have been read in the newspaper, Facebook make one men died because he condemns one of her girl friends in Facebook. When the brothers of the girl read it they beat that guy and that guy got a serious bleeding in his brain and after two days that guy died. This case was happened at Kulim, Kedah.
In summary, the pressure and problem are more increase because of Facebook. It is not wrong to join the Facebook. But the users must use it in a right way and not too obvious with it until lost money, jobs and a reality friends and life. The writer want the readers beware and very careful with Facebook. And for the best ways Quitting Facebook for your own goodness.